Correction, i shouldn't even use the word "friend" in the previous entry so sloppily... semester mate would be more appropriate. after one sem, let's not keep in contact.
2 days ago, in the midst of rushing my assignment, he msged me on msn telling me that they have decided to fail him - for the second time. Since it's a compulsory subject, he would have to do it again next year. For a second, my heart skipped a beat and my hands turned cold. So i asked him for the email that they've sent jus to confirm everything.
Yep. They were lenient, despite being "encouraged to terminate his program", they decided to fail him for that subject instead. so that's that.
Thanks to that imbecile, I was "invited" to a meeting with the faculty heads. Clearly, i wasn't at fault. And my friends have reassured me that they jus wanna to clarify and inform me about it so i should be cool. But somehow i still felt jittery. In addition, i was also quite stressed to get my assignment done in time on same day as the meeting.
I was greeted with smiles and thankfulness for being able to attend the meeting. To me, it felt weird and i din know how to react to it. i was totally in a daze. My lecturer, the student advisor manager and student learning centre advisor (i think) attended the meeting and they took turns to question. Basically, it went quite alright i guess. i was so nervous and blurted everything they wanna know. Although i still held some within myself with "erm yea... uhuh.. yea...." letting them fill in the blanks. but the decision has been made and the whole purpose of the meeting was to informed me that some imbecile has plagiarized my work. Although nothing was taken against me as i was the "victim", i was overwhelmed by the meeting and i couldn't concentrate in my classes afterwards.
Only after 10 days, since i was informed about the plagiarism, that i became aware of the gravity of the whole incident. and most of all, furious for that imbecile's actions and his non-remorsefulness. Setting aside all the extra stress and anxiety he has caused me during the peak period of my assignments without a word of apology, he was and IS still in denial of his mistake. The more i think about it after the meeting, the more pissed i was with him and myself. i should have elaborated more during the meeting if only i have realised earlier how pissed i am now.
1. After blatantly admitting that he has handed in my assignment on purpose "since i did not pass it to anyone else" he wanted to request for an "appeal" when he was informed of the instant failure of the subject and insisted that he "did not plagiarised" which he clearly has intended to do so right at the start~!
2. Having trouble accessing information that i had written in my assignment, he approached me and asked me to "help" him to look for it. Dude, i have my own assignments to worry. It's for reference and if u cant find the info, dun use it.
3. He still has the cheek to ask me if any of my friends are doing the same subject as him or has done it before cuz he wanted their assignment. This, i gladly said "no" cuz that's the truth. and even if i do, i should have said. "F*** *FF" still i think its too kind for him.
4. He still has the cheek to ask what subjects i'm doing this sem. and i replied "property. does it matter" wtf, stop asking me the same question all the time.
5. He still wanna know wad subject i'll be doing next sem. Thank goodness i dun have to lie to him for any of these questions cuz we'll not be doing the same subject. and even if we are...
"F*** OFF"
yea.. hell u are right, i'm still damn pissed.
3 comments:
Relax relax. Now the whole thing is over, treat it as a learning experience. Also you came out unscathed so that is a blessing too. Think of it this way. Now you know who is your friend and who is your foe already. So relax.
woah first time i see u so pissed off... but like wat kes say relax... everything is over le.. there are always free riders around..I also tio free rider during proj... so i understand the feeling... so next time if u ever encountered again (*touchwood*), u will be better equipped le.. =)
hahahaa... both of u are right.. hahaha... i know i should tone down on my language. hahaha...i jus feel annoyed that he doesn't know that he's in a wrong. but o well.. that's him and i feel i have given him more chances than he deserves so that's that. i wash my hands off him.
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